It’s Natural To Be Attracted To Other People
You, or your beloved can (and probably will) be attracted to other people while you are co-creating a relationship together. What would it be like if you were to let yourself feel the attraction to others, don’t deny it or close down your heart, then turn the energy towards YOUR BELOVED and share with them what you are experiencing? Do you think that it demonstrates real commitment, allowing the relationship to thrive in TRUTH, OPENNESS and with LOVE which lasts a lifetime?
“I believe in complete disclosure … you can’t really hurt someone by what you say, but you can hurt them by what you withhold. Tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth – now that’s real FREEDOM – for yourself and for the other.” ~ ER
COMMITMENT TO A RELATIONSHIP was never meant to mean that we capture and hold someones love and attention. That is a gift that is best given freely and unconditionally.
REAL COMMITMENT means allowing the other person the ‘FREEDOM’ to be themselves … giving to THEM your love and attention unconditionally, AS A GIFT – not as an exchange. That also means sharing your innermost wishes and desires (the darkness and the light) with that ONE person, no matter where your mind, body or soul takes you … which gives them the freedom to do the same with you.
At the very worst, this level of honesty will help you realize IF you are not right for each other, without going through years of superficial trials and tribulations and heartbreaks caused by withholding the truth in the first place.
WAYS TO EXPLORE FANTASIES TRUTHFULLY – You CAN also create your thoughts, fantasies and attractions toward someone new or someone fictitious and then multiply your devotion to the one beside you by sharing truthful intimacy with them … but the most important thing is to NOT deny that attraction to others exists. That is what is damaging to your heart and to your relationship.
What do you think about “telling the truth in relationships”?